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Shanon Caldwell posted a condolence
Sunday, August 13, 2023
When my husband I got married, Shirley insisted that we have it at her house. It was only a couple of months after my Mother had died, so she knew that I was feeling lost. She also insisted that I stay all night with her the night before, to uphold tradition, so Tim couldn't see me before the wedding. Qualla Arts and Craft supplied the chairs and a couple of tables (Tim loaded those up) with her help. She took me to breakfast the morning of the wedding, I could barely eat, I was so nervous. Then she took me to get my hair and makeup done. The stylist looked at her and said, "Shirley, this girl is so nervous, you better take her by the casino and get her a vodka shot!" LOL! After my hair was done, we went by Ingles to pick up a couple of last minute things and one of our mutual friends who was there working the florist area put a daisy in my braid, since daisies were in my bouquet from our friend Diane. When we got back to her house, some of my family had already arrived (my two first cousins, Sam and Kevin, both preachers, were marrying us) and my only surviving Aunt (Jean Bennett) so I ran upstairs and started getting ready. My Dad got there shortly after, along with my husband to be and our friends Ken and Loretta. Shirley came upstairs and handed me a box and said that it was from my Mom. I didn't question it, I knew Shirley has flashes like that sometimes, as do I. I opened the box and it was this beautiful carved turtle necklace and earrings. Yes, I cried and ruined my makeup and had to redo part of it. After that, my Dad came up and I was vibrating so much that I couldn't even attach the clasp on my necklace. He put it on for me. A few minutes later, Shirley came up and said, "I brought you some ice water, it's hot up here." It was hot, for real, so I took a great big gulp. It was straight vodka on ice, LOL, she had heard the hairdresser. And it was the right thing, it settled me down enough not to be a blubbering mess throughout the entire ceremony. Since we forgot any music, my Dad sang "Here Comes the Bride, big fat and wide" while he was walking me to Tim (he's a nut) and then we had a nice spread for lunch. That's the kind of friend she was. I could share a million more memories, like when a woman in Walmart thought we were sisters when we were oohing and aahing over Christmas ornaments, or the time she found 50 in a restaurant parking lot just as we were both talking about being broke, there are so many and they are priceless to me. I loved her dearly.
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Shanon Smathers Caldwell posted a condolence
Saturday, March 26, 2022
She was the best friend I've ever had and one of the best people I've ever known. She was kind and generous to a fault and would help anyone, anytime, anywhere. I love you Squirrely ( for Dad, lol). <3
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Tammy Gibby lit a candle
Tuesday, February 22, 2022
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Mandi and family our sympathy and prayers are with you all.
Tammy and Owen Gibby
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Chris Herrin posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 22, 2022
I remember her from time i was a student at high school. Godspeed and ill see you again in Glory one day.
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Bunny George lit a candle
Tuesday, February 22, 2022
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Mandi, I'm sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Love you.
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Rusty, Shannon, Kali and Kyle planted a tree in memory of Shirley Swayney Cloer
Monday, February 21, 2022
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Carol Cochran Melanson posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, February 21, 2022
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Buck and Mandi, I am so sorry to hear about Shirley. She was such a wonderful person and so proud of her family. Sending you positive energy and white light.
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Audrey Walkingstick lit a candle
Monday, February 21, 2022
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Earl and Brenda Jones lit a candle
Monday, February 21, 2022
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Denise Ballard posted a condolence
Sunday, February 20, 2022
Mandy, Buck and families,
I was so sad to hear the news about your mother. We worked together and I always enjoyed her humor and actions. We all had some good times together at Qualla Arts. I pray you find comfort in the knowledge that she loved her children and family with all her heart.
My prayers are with you all.
Denise
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Andrea Crisp posted a condolence
Sunday, February 20, 2022
Prayers for you all..So sad to read this. Shirley was a beautiful woman inside and out
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Shirley Hyde posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, February 20, 2022
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Mandy and Buck and your families. My deepest sympathy to you. My prayers are with you, and I pray that God will comfort you in this time of grieving for Shirley. We had worked together at Swain High School for several years. Had some good times. May God bless all of you and give you peace.
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Rita Mattox posted a condolence
Sunday, February 20, 2022
Mandy and Buck,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of your lovely mother. She was a loving and dedicated mother and grandmother. I can't recall a conversation with her that she didn't share about both of you and her grandchildren.
May you find joy in all the memories.
Rita Mattox
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Theresa Cunningham Moss posted a condolence
Sunday, February 20, 2022
Mandi and Buck and families,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will be with you at this difficult time. Trust him for all your needs. If I can do anything please let me know.
Love and Prayers,
Theresa Cunningham Moss
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Besta Mccoy Maxey planted a tree in memory of Shirley Swayney Cloer
Sunday, February 20, 2022
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Sorry for your loss. I truly enjoyed getting to know Shirley during the past few summers at our shop. She was a fun loving individual. Ill miss her. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Sunday, February 20, 2022
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Shirley Swayney Cloer
Sunday, February 20, 2022
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